Nothing else on Earth has the power to change your life so radically as falling in love with the right person

But there are challenges to having a healthy & thriving relationship:

  • Pacing your feelings so you don’t overlook critical red flags

  • Knowing the difference between little deals and deal breakers

  • How to build trust and reliance in safe and sustainable ways

  • Knowing how to build a sustainable foundation, that won’t crumble over time

Your plan for empowering yourself in your next romantic relationship

  • 1. Get Access

    Get unlimited access to the course for a one-time payment of $197. If you're not ready, try the first module for free!

  • 2. Watch the Course

    Each session is filled with decades of evidence-based research, insightful exercises, and straightforward practical tools.

  • 3. Achieve Growth

    Grow yourself and be confident in your next romantic relationship.

Road Tested + User Approved

Our courses have been taught to over a million users world-wide by all branches of the military, coalitions, non-profits, and by individuals like you.

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Here's what you'll learn in the 5 modules:


Learn about the major changes that have impacted the dating world and what that means for you in your relationships. Also, you will be given an overview of the whole course so you know where we're headed.


In this session you will learn about two of the most important areas to get to know about a partner as well as how to get to know these important, yet tricky, things.


You will learn about the three other important areas to get to know about a partner. In this session, you will also learn the detective technique which will equip you with an easy to follow approach when trying to figure someone out. 


This session takes you into the heart of relationships. You will be provided with a working definition of trust, that is different than anything you've ever heard before. Three common relationship mistakes will be explained. And you will learn how to build trust and reliance in safe ways, no matter whether or not you have trust "issues".


You will learn about the different types of commitment and how these can help or harm your relationships. Important things to consider when making the decision to live together or not will be hashed out and the importance and power of sexual touch will be discussed.

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What They're Saying

  • Best Money Spent on Me

    This was the best money I ever spent on me! If I hadn’t taken your class I would have continued on in the only vicious cycle I had come accustomed to for so many years. - Krista G.

  • An Eye-Opener

    I have to tell you as soon as I finished the course I called my good friend and we discussed what I learned as well as how we function with the RAM model. Kind of an eye-opener when you categorize the process like that! - Shannon P.

  • Empowered Me to Make Healthy Decisions

    This turned out to be one of the best things I've ever done. It empowered me to make healthy decisions and helped me to identify the good guys. I would strongly recommend this resource. - Janelle B.

What Sets Our Course Apart

The entire course is built around two areas...

  • Head Knowledge

    Head knowledge teaches what you need to get to know about a partner to predict what they will be like in a long term relationship. The course outlines five critical areas to explore about potential partners and how to make sense of what you find out. Ultimately this will equip you with the tools necessary to choose a healthy partner and relationship.

  • Heart Knowledge

    Heart knowledge is how to pace your growing feelings of love and closeness in your relationship so that you don't overlook critical red flags in the relationship. You will learn about healthy and unhealthy trust and dependencies, ways that commitment can benefit you or entrap you, and the power of sexual bonding in your relationship.


  • Is this course just for women?

    HECK NO! This course is for both men and women. Research studies have been conducted on this course and it has been shown to be equally effective with both men and women.

  • Who will benefit most from this course?

    This course is best suited for singles of high school age and older. It is a perfect course for people dating, thinking about dating, in a dating relationship, divorced, or widowed.

  • What is included in this course?

    You will get the 5 sessions and a downloadable workbook. You can fill this workbook out right on your computer or, if you're old school, you can print it out and write your answers in. You will also receive self-exploration worksheets to help you dig deeper and graphic visuals of the research talked about in the course!

  • What if I am unhappy with the course?

    We would never want you to be unhappy! If you are unsatisfied with your purchase, contact us in the first 30 days and we will give you a full refund.

  • When does the course start and finish?

    The course starts now and never ends! It is a completely self-paced online course - you decide when you start and when you finish.

  • How long do I have access to the course?

    You have access to this course for an entire year! If your year runs out and you need more time contact us at [email protected].

  • Can I use this for a group?

    That is definitely an option. However this is designed as single-user course. If you'd like to discuss use with multiple participants and associated costs, then please contact us at [email protected]. If you are looking for a group course, we have a series called the RAM Series that is a video-based discussion course and may be a better fit. Check out for more info.

Meet Dr. John Van Epp

John Van Epp is the President and Founder of Love Thinks, LLC is the author of How to Avoid Falling in Love with a Jerk and Becoming Better Together: Healthy relationship goals for growing together when life is pulling you apart. He has 25 years of clinical counseling and extensive research in premarital, marital and family relations. All that has paved the way for his programs to be taught to over one million participants in organizations, educational and military settings and social agencies in all fifty states and ten countries. His work has been featured on The Wall Street Journal, Time Magazine, Psychology Today, O Magazine, and Cosmopolitan; he has appeared on the “CBS Early Show,” “Good Morning America,” “Fox News” and “Focus on the Family.” He has been happily married for over 40 years and is the proud father of two daughters.
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Meet Dr. Morgan Cutlip

Morgan Cutlip pursues her passion of helping others develop and maintain healthy relationships as she directs Research and Development at Love Thinks, LLC,. There she conducts research on program effectiveness, manages the blog at and develops innovative products for delivering relationship education. Her published research on the “How to Avoid Falling for a Jerk” program won the Family Consumer Science Research study of the year. She is also the owner and CEO of STAT Research & Consulting where she contracts with non-profits, companies and government organizations to provide research and statistical report design services. She has appeared on the television show, “Marriage Uncensored.” She has been happily married for nine years and is the proud mother of two rambunctious preschoolers.
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